What’s a good Tinder opener?
Something from her photos or bio she can answer fast. If it would work on anyone, it won’t work on her.
Tinder opener rater
Rate my Tinder opener.
You matched, and her bio is three words and a dog. Paste your first message anyway.
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Tinder opener
Paste it in. Get graded.
- More than “hey”
- Easy to answer
- Something specific
- Kept it short
- Stayed off her looks
- One question, not a form
- No apology
- Not something she’s had fifty times
One that gets an A
Photo of her with a very fat cat. Bio: dog person, allegedly
A dog person with a cat that size. Who’s lying, you or the bio
First messages on Tinder
Her Tinder bio is empty. What do I send?
Use a photo. Not her face: the place, the dog, the thing she’s holding.
Should I use a GIF as a Tinder opener?
A GIF is a reaction to nothing. She has nothing to answer.
Who should message first on Tinder?
Whoever wants the conversation. Waiting for her to go first mostly means nobody does.
Openers are lesson one. The rest is the game.
Short lessons, thirty-second drills, and practice chats with characters who leave like real people.